Who are you..? What are u doing...? Why are we here...? . We all get this question at some stage of our life, this is felt when we are mentally weak, too much satisfied,not in helping situtaion, or morally down.How to over come this depression?, this can't be done by someone else this can be done only by self motivating ourselves.Self motivation is a state of mind. It is the condition of the mind where you focus and concentrate on your work so precisely that you lose yourself in the work while doing it.
This pandemic year 2020 has shut many dreams of people round the world,no food,no money,but how do we come out of this situtation is by keeping ourself confident and beliving ourselves that we can overcome this.Let's have a look at small example two of the pandemic affected guys gets admited to hospital due to COVID-19 one is of 35years of age and the other one is 102years old.The person with of 102 years gets cured and comes out of hospital but the other died. Why did this happen, this old person who faught the pandemic was motivated,confident,egerness to come out with flying colours and still wanted to achieve big in his life and on the other hand the other person who died was just 35years old still he died cause he was always thinking of this pandemic which he has got and was questioning why only him. So,the moral is to face the problem rather than thinking why it has happened to me.
Why do we need to be always SELF MOTIVATED :
You cannot always rely on others to encourage you, if you have positive friends who are always there when you need them then you are indeed lucky and very much in the minority. If you are lonely or have few friends when you face any difficulties in your life you must rely on your own motivation to get you through. Lack of self motivation at that time could lead to depression.
You need self motivation to achieve because if you don't encourage yourself to accept opportunity and challenge who will?
To plan and find direction in your life.
To take up a new activity, hobby or challenge.
To be enthusiastic about life and living.
To have the courage to see things through despite setbacks or negative comments from others.
How to concieve this SELF MOTIVATION:
Today's world needs creativity in everything,a creative idea is a perfect source of self motivation and a sure shot way to success. Let's see the steps to achieve that :
PURPOSE - Do you have a purpose? Do you have an ultimate aim? Do you have something which all your activities are directed towards? This is called your purpose. Your purpose is the main source of motivation. Whether you are in a job, a business or any other profession, your purpose is what makes the difference. For example, making your family happy is a purpose. Or making your mom proud of you is a purpose. What methods you use to achieve this purpose are secondary. To develop your self motivation skills and self understanding, you need to have a primary purpose.
PASSION - Are you passionate about your purpose? Are you willing to do anything for your purpose? Are you ready to face anything and everything that comes your way? This is passion. There exists a big difference between doing a work and doing a work with passion. If you compare the results of the two, you can notice this difference easily. Passion is an important source of the self motivation drive. It keeps you going and doesn’t let you give up even in the most difficult circumstances.
PERSISTENCY - Do you give up easily? Do you keep doing the work until you finish it? Do you persist at everything that you do? Persistence is an important trait of your personality to achieve success. Combined with your purpose, passion and your self motivation drive, persistence will help you achieve any and every goal that you set for yourself. Using your self motivation skills to your benefit, you can make yourself persist in the most challenging situations, no matter how long it takes for you to achieve your goals.
SET A GOAL - Define an end that you want to achieve. This would help you know your direction and progress and act as a source of motivation.This is the first and foremost step. Set an aim for yourself. Goal setting is the first step in every field or subject. If you have a purpose - a definite goal - it will keep you going by constantly ‘knocking’ at your mind. Try to be as specific as you can be regarding your goal. After you have set a goal, try to break it into smaller goals. These smaller goals will help you measure how much you have progressed towards your main goal.
COMMIT YOURSELF TO GOAL - Attitude makes a lot of difference when it comes to self motivation. There is a huge difference between saying “I’ll try my best to achieve my goals” and “I WILL achieve my goals”. You must commit yourself to achieving your goals, no matter what happens. This will make a huge difference to your motivation because your sub-conscious registers this as being an ‘order’. It will change your whole attitude and give you the required motivation whenever you need it.
THINK UNIQUELY - Think of ways and methods you can follow to achieve the end you have set. These ideas can be anything and everything that cross your mind. Let your imagination run wild and write down everything you can think of whether it’s practical or not.
INTERVENE - Once you have set your goals and committed yourself to them, you need to start taking action. The reason is that when the mind sees things happening around it, it gives you that very essential self motivation drive. It starts radiating the self motivation energy which is required to keep you going no matter what results you get.
It's not that someone must always come and motivate or inspire you, cause in this world not everyone has time for it. So, better let's stand on our feet by self motivating and let us become an inspiration for others. This is not bad phase of our life(2020-COVID19) it's just a beginning for a good phase in your life,good things take time but will always be fruitfull.
Don't try to become like someone, instead try to outlook urself so that someone will look at you and tell that they must become like you.